turning laughter levels down

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I have a rather loud laugh.

It’s a house family trait. My laugh is demure compared to my brothers. Bros 57 can silence a large noisy pub with one lashing of his laughter, his style is somewhat reminiscent of Jimmy Carr – with more volume:

I love my loud laugh. Not everyone does:

  • In cinemas people will tap my on the shoulder and ask me to keep the noise down. Have you every tried to down-volume your laugh? I don’t even bother to try, I apologise for disrupting their enjoyment then continue with my own, unabashed, feeling pity for them that they can’t enjoy my laughter.
  • In restaurants peers have asked me to keep the noise down because I’m disrupting the enjoyment of people at other tables and drawing attention to our table. Again, I’ll apologise and wonder at how these people can feel such a strong need to ask me to conform with a perceived need to be seen, but not heard enjoying yourself.
  • A lady in the office next door came round to complain that she couldn’t hear her telephone conversation when I was laughing. I apologised for the noise level and suggested that she consider investing in a headset.

I was regularly asked to be THE AUDIENCE for full dress rehearsals by a Theatre company. Free theatre! My laugh was big enough for me to mimic a whole audience! The actors were able to adjust their timing to deal with likely audience noise levels.

One friend commented on how she envied my ability to laugh so genuinely, so unaffected by the people around me. How sad that her happiness was stifled by her respect for other people’s right to be not-offended by it. People who ask other people to moderate their laughter volume are to be pitied.  I do try to moderate when I laugh to be socially acceptable, but not the volume….

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turning laughter levels down
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  1. bux writes:

    seems if we ever do meet up for real that we will need to send out a public health warning first! I’m famous for my laugh, I was once laughing in a pub in Liverpool and a DJ from local radio approached me and asked me if I would like to be on his show. There is absolutely nothing better than a good old laugh!

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    wendy writes

    Bux, I love a group of loud laughers, they are like self-perpetuating energy, feeding of each others unabashed silly noises. Love to meet up with you and try out some giggle one one of your visits 🙂

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  2. Indigo Roth writes:

    Hey Wendy! I was always too loud for the office; it never stopped me either. But I sure got some bad appraisals at the end of the year. I salute your outbursts. Roth x

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    wendy writes

    Indigo, lets visit a comedy show together sometime, it’ll be a scream – literally 😉

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